Hello luvlies.
uhm okay i ve been noticing a few break ups here and there and it tears me apart. I am in a relationshp so i understand that between the girl and the guy,there will be fights. Thats a norm. Couples fight always because of different reasons, for what i experience because i knw why i normally fight with my boyf is because of jealousy. thats one of the reason. Then again, when you think about it, why be jealous? Im not saying you're not suppose to but if you trust him or her, why be jealous? So what if that guy looks at her. If she loves you too and both of you love each other, thats all that MATTERS.
When you're in love, it comes sweet and bitter. I know sometimes all of you whose in a realtionship or have been in a relationship fights alot because of these and that. Why dont compromise? If both of you dont agree on a thing, you should talk things out. Its not good if you keep pointing fingers at each other. Like what kak nira said, you're just adding fuel to the fire. End up, it just becomes bigger and much worse. I knw some of you might say, but he's always looking ate the other girls/he keeps contacting with other girls or 'theres alwyas guys arnd her/guys keep giving sweet talks. The reason i suppose is because you all are afraid. Afraid of being dumped and ditched for another guy/girl.

 But look at this way, look at the brighter sight. I say to those who is in a longer realtionship and because those longer relationship have indeed last because they trust each other in the beginning right? For those who just started, its okay. both parties have to work it out. its just about both not being stubborn and compromise and understand and trust and honest too. If you love each other, NEVER ever say the word breakup. because if that dont come in mind. you two wont be breaking up. because of this word break up, you're half hearted in the realtionship. Fights is NOT equal to breaking up. Asal gaduh je break, asal gaduh besar je break. See? How can you go on.. Never say the word break promise me, and you'll lead a happier relationship. I say this because of my personal life with my boyfriend.

I learned so much being in a year plus relationship. No. never easy. It was hard. I felt like giving up but the small heart ofmine beats for him only. And i knew i could never give him up. Eventhough there was so many difficult situations i had to go through. I never did like fighting with him because it was so hard. bt thanks to big sis whose always waking me up. You cant keep going on like this. If you love him why hur t yourself too? if fighting with him hurt you, why dont you stop? and i did. Humans are full of flaws so you have to learn to forgive and forget. Eventhough you know its hard but because you LOVE him. Ya. ive heard 'cinte takkan ke mane' cinte takkan ke mane? cinte untuk allah? cinte untuk ibu bapa/keluarga? cinta juga. and that love is importand because you're nothing without it, because you wont be the person you are now if you're full of hatred unless youre already hating alot. My dear hubby always say 'It NEVER, EVER crossed my mind the word breakin up. It doesnt exist becasue i want to go on and on being with you till death' See? Im fortunate to get a boyfriend who belives in love so deeply. He is one of a kind. Beneath all the looks, he has a good heart and a soft side. only me who sees it. We cried, we cried alot. we cried together and have always done things together. Theres no me going that way and him gont the other way. Its always US, and insyallah, we last. I belive in love, i belive in him. I belive most importantly that allah swt will decide for me. and i never stop loving him. because the word breaking up/ take a break/ time out/seperate ways and so on will never be in our vocab. and il love my man till my heart stops beating.

So guys and girls who reads my blog, if you have come across or so on. Believe in love, believe in each other. Belive in going forever. And never say break up. I hoped you enjoyed. Chalaboteh. luv you all. Assalamualaikum.

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